Optimism: The Tremendous Benefits of a Positive Attitude
By Anna White
How many times have you heard someone say, “Hey, cheer
up!” or “Turn that frown upside-down!”? Unconsciously
we all seem to know
that optimism is a virtue and that a negative outlook is something
to be concerned about. And did you know that there are actually
a host of concrete reasons why this is so?
Medically speaking, anxiety, anger and stress can all do a lot
of damage to the body. Too much stress has been shown in research
to shorten a person’s life span; in the shorter term it
can wreak
havoc on the skin as well as on the internal systems, including
the immune system and other vital organs. Holding negative feelings
inside can even throw the digestive functions of your body out
of whack, too. So you see that a bad attitude isn’t just
something
to be waved off or taken lightly — it can have a significant
impact
on your health.
On the other hand, people who consistently exhibit a positive
attitude are more likely to stay healthier, look fitter, and
recover
faster from any illnesses they do undergo. You may have heard
stories about cancer patients who, seemingly because they managed
to keep up their hope and spirits, somehow survived and beat
their
disease. There is certainly something about optimism that goes
far beyond merely being “upbeat” or “perky” — it’s
a way of thinking
and a way of living that actually improves your overall sense
of wellbeing.
Unfortunately, many of us are brought up only too familiar with
the negative side of things. We live in a world full of upsetting
events and everyday stresses. The key is to remind yourself not
to let it dictate your emotional state. No matter what is happening
around you, if you can develop your positive attitude at the
core
of your being, you will equip yourself to survive any challenge,
any disappointment, any crisis, and any source of upset.
Make a conscious effort to replace your negative thoughts and
actions with positive ones. Instead of looking at a task and
saying,“
It’s impossible,” just commit to doing it and enjoying
the challenge
of a job well done. Instead of viewing an illness as “proof” of
how hopeless your life is, look at it as your body’s way
of telling
you that something needs to change, and then work on changing
it.
Every hardship, every seemingly impossible thing is actually
a brilliant opportunity for you to show just how far you can
push
yourself to accomplish your goals. Expect some curveballs along
the way and accept that they are an inevitable part of life.
Whatever
comes your way, exude positive energies to those around you,
and
it will be reflected back to you! •
© 2005 Anna White
About the Author
Anna White is chief-editor and researcher in charge of SelfHelpCorner.com,
a website dedicated to providing you with 100% free self-help
information that's practical, cutting edge and immediately useable
in your life.
09/03/05
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